I WANT MEANS: if I want it enough I will get it.
Getting what you want means making the decisions you need to make to get what you want.
Not the decisions those around you think you should make.
Making the safe decision is dull, predictable and leads nowhere new.
The unsafe decision causes you to think and respond in a way you hadn't thought of.
And that thought will lead to other thoughts which will help you achieve waht you want.
Start taking bad decisions and it will take you to a place where others only dream of being.
(Paul Arden, Whatever you think think the opposite. Penguin.)